Imagine a swamp so vast, you cannot make out its end with your naked eye. First, picture a young girl, 13 years old. I want you to be her conscience โ the eyes of her soul. Imagine her arduous escape from the only place sheโs ever known, into the darkness, through the swamp and away beyond the hills. I want you to be her fear, her heart violently beating at her temples as she takes on unknown territory. Imagine her return, nearly 30 years later, roving mad and unrecognizable, but for her distinctive high pitched voice that can be heard echoing through the village at intervals. That is the story of Kerubo โ she who dared defy the knife โ as told to us on the eve of our ceremony.
Outside our holding hut, it is dead silent, save for the cries of the animals of the night and Keruboโs usual midnight calls, seemingly more eerie tonight. Inside, an assortment of prepubescent girls, anxiously awaiting dawn and their monumental passage into adulthood. Nyakerairo has been crying since she was dropped off this afternoon. Although sheโs only eight and the youngest, her father is the new chief and he is determined to prove himself. Me I am only here because baba said he is not sending any of his daughters as half-baked women into the world. It is the only way I could convince him to pay my high school fees.
All night long, I tried to come up with strategies that Iโd use to still myself in the face of the blade. Nothing could prepare me for the mind numbing pain that sliced through my body as soon as Bhabha Maraari performed the cut. The blade was cold and bloody from previous encounters. When the fever rose three days later, they said it was a normal part of the process. Even in my pain and herb induced delirium, I caught wafts of the stench coming from my wound. I knew I was not getting better. I donโt remember much. I remember waking up from my bed, down the long corridor, and into the dead of the night. Thankfully, none of the aunties were vigilant. I remember getting only as far as the swamp at Esise. When I opened my eyes, I remember feeling sore and seeing Kerubo standing over me, a glass of water and what looked like tablets in her hand.
- Gloria Masheti
13 Responses
So gripping…FGM needs to be stopped
Truly heart wrenching.Our society has come a long way but there is still so much to do to ensure our girls are safe.
Was Kerubo also a victim?
An evocative, well-written piece, effectively conveying the plight of too many girls around the world. Hopefully stories like this will help to draw attention to the suffering and bring the practice to an end.
Perfect piece,this is great advocacy through storytelling to end FGM๐
The aftermath of FGM is felt many years to come, a fight to end this gruesome practice and ease the burden and pain of many girls is welcomed
Interesting how fear drives a lot of the things we do.
We need to be fearless to break the mould
Mashetiiii, your pieces are always truly amazing. They take me to places ๐. Thank you.
Such an amazing piece. Kudos
FGM is a violation of the human rights and it is heartbreaking ๐ It needs to be stopped!
I couldn’t have put it any better. Thank you for this enlightening article!
It is completely devastating that some girls and women still have to go through FGM. Thank you for your advocacy.